When girls meet
we talk of life
and inevitably of love
and yes, home
and many hopelessness
we laugh at our follies
and regret not having misadventures
then we crib
of the dutifulness
and mopping and cleaning and cooking
shifting to our love for dresses
of decking up
the ‘nathani’ she planned to get
the sari that has been so alluring
lingering on the shops and malls
then moving to foods
dwelling deeply on ice-creams and chocolates
we dive deep into fantasies
of outings and immersing ourselves in the many ‘unsanskari’ stuff
we decide its about time to do what we ought to do
or aren’t we going to regret
there is of course time to recollect old flames
sometimes music and films
we set our dates
and fix our plans
but the meetings call
the duties demand
the month ends threaten
some attire we struggle to fit into
with young hearts and
old bodies, maybe not old, not yet
we laugh out loud
and keep the laughter ringing
as we go on we say
we shall go out with a song in our hearts
wink in our eyes
mischief in our minds
there’s a promise of a glass of wine
or may be something stronger
to laugh out louder
drowning the freckles and the wrinkles
coz if not for living, what is life for?
so be it!
Thathastu!
The universe said
or maybe I just made it up!
PS: To Vi, Ro and Lee and our many flights!
2 responses to “When girls meet”
Just yesterday I was puzzling over a crazy book (crazy to me, and maybe many men), “The Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood.” written by Rebecca Wells, 1996–apparently very successful here, for a time at least.. There was a movie made from it. too.. We discussed it today in our book club, equally divided, men and women. I would never have read or understood it if it weren’t an “assignment.” Now, after reading your poem, I like it and the book even a bit better than I would have yesterday.
(Sorry for the long comment. Enthusiasm resulting from small and large revelations. A guy-eye-opening thing.)
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Its a good thing when guys get it. Many women will be happier I guess, if they did it actually! I need to read up the book. Let me see if I can get it.
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